I think I answered these questions in the other parts of my essay questions.  I just want people to understand how stressful it is to plan a wedding, how it affects the attitude of a bride and how they shouldn’t judge brides to be. I know that I’ve learned not to judge until you know how something actually affects someone.

I used to think that brides to be were mean, rude, stuck up and bitchy, but now i realize that there is a lot of stress. The stress is from planning the wedding. If a girl has these hopes and dreams about her wedding and something goes wrong it is horrible. I learned this by going through the stress first hand. The only thing that went OK was the rings. We got those then i tried to pick out my dress, the ones i liked were either very expensive, or out of stock.  The people at the bridal shop were rude, brought me gold dresses, and snatched things out of my hands. The vases we ordered were the wrong color. They were a blue green instead of cornflower blue. They only cost $90 and to send them back we would have had to pay $121. Which is insane!

What i learned from all this is that if a bride to be has to deal with all of this she has the right to be a bitch. I’ve had my wedding planned since i was a little girl and when everything went wrong i started to think that my dream would not work. I think that this fits the old saying “Walk a mile in some one else’s shoes” this fits because you never know how it really is until you do something. I would probably still think that brides blow everything out of proportion but now i know that is not true and they have a right to be bitchy. Everyone only expects to get married once so you want they day to be perfect.

* what is it your trying to understand by making this film?

I’m trying to show how stressful it is to plan a wedding, how much stuff can go wrong with planning the wedding. I want to show that because everything is so stressful that is why brides become “bridezillas” its not that a bride to be is psycho or bitchy its that little girls grow up dreaming about their wedding so if something goes wrong you feel everything is ruined. I went through this so many times with all different things.

I want to show this by showing the problems with my dress. How the Davids Bridal was rude, the dress sizes were smaller then normal sizes, the dress i wanted was out of stock. How the napkins are taking forever, how the vases were the wrong color, and take too much money to ship back.